Look at the reality around you, what do you see?

People can be masters of self-deception, be lulled into false perceptions about what is going on around us. Come up with excuses for others, trying to probe deep for different explanations as to why and how people act the way they do, when the answers are often right in front of us. There is not always a profound reason as to why, people are more simple and straightforward regarding their motives and wishes than we realize. Sometimes we project a hidden agenda coated with love and sincerity unto others, to ease up into the ideals we have about life and the motivations of others. 

Refusing to see he blatant reality staring us right in the face. The neptunian haze is often illusive and alluring, but do not become trapped within its confines. 

Why we do this, is often to protect ourself from unfortunate truths, some people simply do not care about you, at all. Some simply are not interested in your company or time, at all. Some have forgotten about you long ago, etc. 

So we relay and project thoughts, motives, causes and reasons to explain why, elaborate fantasies to sway us from blaring truth. Going into endless forays of self-defense mechanisms, to shelter the heart from pain. 

Breaking out the analysis machine, caught in a muddle of rumination and possible explanations to be lost in illusional delusions.
Sometimes it is necessary to forget culture, what we are trained to believe, the courteous appereance of a false promise, and to trust what is here and now, not the promised land of wistful yearning.

Most people follow their passions, wants and needs. If they truly want something, they go after it. If someone truly likes you, they are most likely to call you or initiativ contact. Life is not as complicated as we sometimes make it. The drives of the heart and mind wins in the end, people go after what they think will contribute to their subjective lives. Even though we probably cannot know
 the true thoughts and emotions of those around us, it is kinda hopeless to play the part of a criminal investigator to find clues, leads and evidence about a situation when the answer is most of the time more simple than we give credit for. Life is more simple than we often realize.

Stay grounded like the beautiful bull, and see who is sitting besides you, who is answering the phone when you call, who is there to spend time with you. Who is present in your reality, who can you see and talk to. The rest is just fodder, most people are not in your reality, altough the mind plays tricks on you to convince you that they are. Try to see reality as it is, and maybe try not spending so much time in the mind, where many falsities and conjectures spring to life. Most of the time we do not have substantial information to make an informer opinion about the supposed intricacies of others,
definitely not when it boils down to strangers or the great unknown. When it comes to those close to you, within your nearest vicinity, we can use our intuition, heart and love to know and feel our way to truth. Because they are actually there, not just there in a fantasy region of the mind.

The subjective perceptions can never be reconciled 

We all live within the confines of our own body, where we have a single brain, one heart, two eyes.

The thoughts and emotions we have are our own, and they flourish from within.

We have the way we see the world, other people, our surroundings, and how we interpret the happenings around us. Still, it is only one soul's ideas and meanings, versus other trillions.

One soul encapsulating so much, so many unique visions and ideas, but still different from everybody else. 

One the same note, one can never be perfect, because the subjective personal preference of personality traits one person holds, can never be met in everyone. And if the way you behave corresponds nicely to how one person sees perfection, it will clash and be destroyed by another. 

If the traits and personality we inhabit were to change for the benefit of one person, it would be to the detriment of another who no longer likes the different persona. 

Our core being will be lovd by some, and disliked by others for no particular reason other than the fact that it triggers them negatively in some fashion. What rouses the personal buttons and angers us, excites us, elevates us, is always dependent on subjective responses and how we are molded in life and who we are when born.

Whose subjective perceptions are we then to adhere to, first and foremost to ourself and those that love us. It is important to have good self confidence, because we will inevitably run into people whose energy and vibe we dont mix well with, and if our confidence were to crack for every such encounter, our self image would be on smitherins by the age of 1.

When we refuse to see that we all view life through our very personal lense of perception, we become blinded to the truth of another, and stubbornly refuse to accept their experinces and accumulated information recorded as life passes by. Not one person is alike, and therefore everyone sees and percieves things differently. While you live your life, let others live theirs, without constanr judgement and obsessive needs to correct them. There does not always have to be interference and adjustments to be made just because your ideals infringes on theirs. The right to not get involved in other people business is often forgotten.

Who are anyone to say that one experience is worth more than another, one way of living usurps another, as we do not know how it is to walk in anothers shoe. Their subjective likes may give them extreme exaltion, while none to you. The love they feel, personal, intimate, and only theirs. While you record your very own story.