Accepting that others have various paths, abilities, talents and experiences, that consists of making them wo they are, and this what creates variery in this world.
When knowing that no two lives will ever be the same, no to people will have the same inprint and effect on others and themselves. All are unique, and all deserve the experiences and possibilties they instrincticly deserve and should be blessed with.
When thinking one deserves more than another, we become jaded, wanting the scales to tip more in our favor of how others should live and behave.
We all come here with the desire to live, dream, feel. And no one should be deprived of those things they long for when coming here. It is an utter impossibility to be through the exact same things, as we are all individuals. No one person should become jealous of the accomplishments, efforts and hard work that some have put into their "desired constellation," we cannot accomplish everything, feel and see everything in one life. Thats why we have each other, to share as much as possibly, try to learn and understand.
Always see the glass as full as possible, honor what you yourself have felt, learned and enjoyed, and will continue to learn.
When stuck in trying to limit others, we also become unable to live our own lives, because time and energy spent cursing others, is time we could have spent enriching our own and others lives. Nor does it feel any good to be mad and angry.

It is always best to focus on the dreams of oneself, to not be clouded in trying to possess the dreams of others. The lives of others. When such happens, there is no opportunity to create the life your soul longs for.