mandag 21. september 2015

    Dont make the black cloud your best friend


When never able to see the silver lining, the potential good and rewarding that comes from possibly draining and tiresome efforts and situations, we are rarely able to go to that destination we crave for.
When the mind is always fixated upon the things you deem unpleasant, tiresome, straining, not jiving with what you wish you were doing.
It becomes difficult to mitigate the current spot you find yourself in and focus on what you deem attractive components on life.
If the supposedly bad is all you can see, it can remain as a dark cloud that is prolonged and overwelcomes it stays even when finding yourself in the most amazing circumstance and dreamy happenings. There can be a tendency to make such states a tiresome companion wherever you go. 
It can be difficult to see the end results of an action when being caught in it and thus unable to see the woods for the trees, there can be a tendency to dwell and remain stuck in an unfortunate stat of mind.
If you only expect sorrows for the future, only see mishaps in the present, only recognize faults in the past, surely, nothing but hopelessness remains.
If you dont see the silver lining, the potential of what awaits, the necessity of clumsy actions and words, and believe that good is never within reach, the mind pollutes many moments from being felt with fervor and glee.
The pollution is not always as easy to cough out as one might think, when one is accustomed to it and barely reacts to its detrimental effects anymore.
Few moments are transformed into pleasantries, few meetings transformed into mutual ease and pleasure and few situations of a kind smell feel welcoming when the mind is used to delving in a dark cave.
When always anticipating that something unfortunate might happen,
When always waiting for your fears to be realized,
Believing that the outcome of most happenings will result in a potentially sorrow-ladden future,
It quickly becomes difficult to enjoy anything at all.
So dont allow that fear in less desirable moments follow you elsewhere, it is still fear in its primordial  form. The future is never an absolute certainity, it is always flowing and changing, and no one can truly predict it. So dont walk around with fatalistic predictions for the present and future,
Replace it with whatever makes you feel less burdened, stressed out, less afraid.
Find the remedy, and drink the organic juice.
Know when to drop all minor annoyances, all stifling trivialities, all annoying doubts and fears, to stop imagining everything that could go wrong,
And just let life speak for itself without interruption.

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